Trust and Backup

As another day comes to a close I have to remind myself. What goes around comes around. I have spent more hours trying to get the Wife’s site back in order than I should have to.. How many years have I been in this business??? And I still to this day can not remember the cardinal rule of working with computers.. Backup, BackUp,BACKUP…

I guess it boils down to remembering that they were on a “friends” server.. Yeah. Some fucking friend. It is going to be a long time before the Wife and I are willing to offer our trust again. A Long fucking time…

I am 52 years old right now.. Been through hell and one war in my life. And to date I have never been Betrayed by so many in so short a time. It was not just these 2 pissy little shits that shut my website down that got to me. But several others here at home .. It was like some black ops vendetta against us. And the Wife and I still have no idea where half the shit that has come to light came from..

We have Phamily here.. Yeah I spelled it right … Phamily is the family you chose. Not your blood family… These people are supposed to be better than your blood… At least that was how it was supposed to be… And we thought it was till Xmas.
One of these Phamily members that the wife has know for over 15 years has slammed her to the bone… Behind her back of course… Never to her face… Always sweeter than pie to her face… But behind her back she has been maligned and degraded for the lifestyle she choses to live, the profession she happens to do and enjoy, as well as the fact that we happen to enjoy a certain herb now and again… Which really makes me laugh … The one who bitches the loudest is a fucking powder head. And at least if we have sexual contact with anyone other than eachother… We do make sure it is safe and take precautions. Not this lug nut. Go figure…

And another so called Phamily member we have stood by for over 5 years. Now this one has had some serious problems. And we stood by him through it all. Never once did we ever speak out of school and Willy nilly tell people of his troubles and his past. We guarded his right to privacy to the max.. But did he do the same for us..? In a word… NO! Now he did not broadcast our love of the herb to the world. just a few select people. Not that it really mattered.. Almost everyone we know is fully aware of the fact. But it just pissed me off to know that he did this. Why? I have no fucking idea to be honest. Other than he just cant keep his nose out of other peoples business.. And then he complains about the drama in his life. For fucks sake he creates almost all of it… But hey. Who am I to bitch.. Some people can’t live without drama. They bitch about it but cant stop creating it…

Do I sound bitter?? Hmm perhaps a little.. But again the wife pat’s me on the head and whispers.. Karma Dragon, Karma… And she is right. It is just so amazing to see how juvenile people you think are adults can be… I have a 20 year old son that has more maturity than most of these people I write about. But then he grew up with me for a dad.. Hmmm

Well that is enough for today I suppose… Goddess knows what will happen tomorrow.. But we shall deal with that tomorrow…
Good Night all and I wish you all a Happy New Year as it gets a little closer… I don’t normally blog as much as the wife does.. I don’t have anywhere near the talent she has or the flair. But I do try to plod along in my fashion…

Till the next time…

Peace Out